Perhaps it is harder in the Winter to be single/alone/without a lover or tribe of friends? Yes I am stating the obvious but REMEMBER ~ nature would have us tucked in, warm, and resting. Nature would have us preparing to rejuvenated for the new Spring of life that is coming.
And Maybe even worse this cycle gets interrupted when there is big loss and mourning. Maybe we move into Winter mentally during the Spring because that is when the big loss happened. Then when Winter comes it feels like an extra long winter. So we find ourselves alone and reflecting for far too long and we crave that new season but it is not time. And we are resting and hibernating Alone….maybe not lonely but it can be a long Winter alone. Life does feel complicated when your dreams and visions get swept out from under your feet. Even if you are the one that swept your life out from under your own feet. It gets complicated and exhausting.
But maybe…just maybe it is so much harder in the Winter? And maybe this hard winter will be the hardest Winter of your life. And perhaps this new Spring coming will be the beginning of a life you never would have dreamed. Have HOPE my friends. I do…
~ always with love